Before I say I Do....Pt 1

Relationships!they build lives,
infact in the Holy Book an acknowlegdement that MAN WAS CREATED FOR RELATIONSHIPS.
We cant run away from them.
We encounter them daily in our work place, in our rooms, in church, in schools.

My input towards any relationship determines whether it will work or fail.
Whatever a man soweth so shall he reap.
Sometimes we castigate our partners without giving them that chance to speak.
We date to show the world that we got a sweetheart.
We date in rush to stick that ring on to the finger.

When two people come from two different backgrounds,they might speak the same language but have two different cultures.
Its good to take time to understand your partner's culture.
It helps especially when we trying to cope with the changes in life patterns around us.
Thats the reason why its good to court for a long time.

Before you say it in front of the world.
Before you say it before your partner,
are you able to mean it?
Are you able to give the vows a practical reality?
Before you say I love you, do you mean it?

"the power of life and death lies in the tongue"
BEFORE YOU SAY I DO...think!